Personality Difficulties
Overview
Personality difficulties involve longstanding patterns in how you relate to yourself and others that cause persistent distress or problems in daily life. They often develop from early relational experiences and affect identity, relationships, and emotional regulation.
Recommended Therapies
Dialectical Behaviour Therapy(DBT)
Guideline SupportedNICE CG78 recommendation for BPD. Comprehensive programme required.
Dialectical Behaviour Therapy is a comprehensive, evidence-based psychological therapy originally developed by Marsha Linehan for people with severe emotional dysregulation and chronic suicidality, particularly borderline personality disorder (BPD). It combines behavioural change strategies with acceptance-based approaches drawn from Zen mindfulness practice. DBT is structured as a programme rather than a standalone individual therapy.
Mentalisation-Based Therapy(MBT)
Guideline SupportedNICE CG78 recommendation for BPD.
Mentalisation-Based Therapy is a structured psychological therapy that focuses on improving the ability to understand one’s own and others’ mental states — thoughts, feelings, intentions, and motivations. Developed by Peter Fonagy and Anthony Bateman, it was originally designed for borderline personality disorder but is now used more broadly.
Schema Therapy
Moderate EvidenceRCT evidence for BPD (Giesen-Bloo et al.).
Schema Therapy is an integrative psychological therapy developed by Jeffrey Young for people with long-standing emotional and relational difficulties that have not responded to standard CBT. It combines cognitive, behavioural, attachment, and experiential approaches to address deeply ingrained patterns known as Early Maladaptive Schemas (EMS).
Cognitive Analytic Therapy(CAT)
Moderate EvidenceWidely used in UK NHS personality disorder services.
Cognitive Analytic Therapy (CAT) is a time-limited, relationally focused integrative psychological therapy that draws on cognitive psychology, psychoanalytic object relations theory, and activity theory (Vygotskian developmental psychology). Developed by Anthony Ryle in the 1980s, CAT helps people understand and change longstanding patterns of thinking, feeling, and relating that cause ongoing distress. It places particular emphasis on understanding how early relational experiences shape current patterns, and uses unique collaborative tools — including reformulation letters and diagrams — to make these patterns visible and open to change.
Transference-Focused Psychotherapy(TFP)
Moderate EvidenceRCT evidence for severe personality pathology.
Transference-Focused Psychotherapy is a specialist, manualised psychodynamic therapy developed for severe personality pathology, particularly borderline personality disorder. It focuses on understanding and integrating split, unstable internal representations of self and others through the therapeutic relationship.
Important
The therapies listed here are based on current evidence and guidelines. This is not an exhaustive list, and the best therapy for any individual depends on their specific circumstances, preferences, and clinical assessment. Always consult a qualified practitioner for personalised recommendations.